How do I do this??

When my kids started school, I was so happy and proud. They would get up and do their morning routine and get to school, have fun in class, learn some cool stuff. Then, they come home from school and the nightmare begins. Homework is the bane of my existence. I don't k now who decided that kids in kindergarten should be geniuses, before they get to school. Don't get me wrong, I want my kids to be smart and I think they should learn more, earlier. But, I already did my time in school, when I graduated high school, I was so happy to be out of there. Now, I am arguing with the kids to get homework done. Now, keep in mind, Drama queen has adhd and a reading disability so that makes it much more difficult to get her to even sit down to do the homework. We have modifications for her, so that helps a bit.
All I can say is that, I don't have a teaching degree and the way they teach things now a days just racks my brain!! I consider myself a well educated person with college but man this sucks! I can't wait for them to be out of school now!